When we think of weddings, one of the last things we consider is grooms and makeup. Weddings have long been associated with bridal bliss. This tradition is steadily changing, especially as the beauty industry shifts to reflect all gender expressions. The concept of wedding prep has existed for generations. Yet, it’s typically been rare for men to be the center of attention. In recent years, grooms have been encouraged to experiment.

Terrence Terrell is an actor with tons of charm. Over the years, he’s stood out in roles on shows like Bosch and the BET original series Bigger. He's currently playing Eli Russel on CBS’s B Positive. Terrell took home the Daytime Emmy Award in 2019 for his portrayal of Kwasi in the series Giants. His role challenged the common stereotypes of Black men in regards to sexuality, masculinity, and mental health. Off-screen, Terrell himself strives to redefine and expand his idea of what being a "man" is.

When I sat down to start this column, I read every durag related article I could find. A lot has been said recently, especially within mainstream and pop culture. Its history is deep and mythological, all of the information was out there, but nothing felt personal. I knew I couldn't explore the impact of the durag without revisiting its impact on me, and the community I grew up in. I can't remember a time where owning at least one wasn't the norm.

I remember my first trip to the dermatologist, I convinced my grandmother it was imperative I see one. I was beginning to experience skin issues, and like most teenagers, it felt like the end of the world. Until then, my biggest concerns were surviving a high school that I hated and neighborhood bullies. Somehow, none of that felt as impactful as the hit to my self-esteem that went along with frequent breakouts and hyperpigmentation.